New immigrants to Israel find solace, strength in community during wartime

As the war rages on, the efforts of Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli demonstrate the power of community in helping new immigrants find their place and purpose in Israel.

 Spirited Russian-speaking immigrants learn about Israel’s path to independence on a hike in the Jerusalem Hills. (photo credit: Courtesy)
Spirited Russian-speaking immigrants learn about Israel’s path to independence on a hike in the Jerusalem Hills.
(photo credit: Courtesy)

Despite the turmoil of war, Israel continues to see an influx of new immigrants. Since the conflict began, approximately 14,000 Jews have made aliyah, a number exceeding expectations. These new arrivals, driven by a blend of hope and resilience, aim to become part of the labor market and integrate into Israeli society. However, among the myriad of difficulties faced by these immigrants, those from the former Soviet Union (FSU), who comprise over 70% of this aliyah, encounter unique challenges.

Providing a vital lifeline to this vulnerable group is Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli (SSY), an organization founded by Linda Pardes Friedburg, an immigrant from New Jersey. SSY stands as a beacon of support, fostering a cohesive community through shared experiences, weekend gatherings, and bonding events.

“We began in 2010 after I saw one too many Russian-speaking olim who had come to Israel and had forgotten why he or she was brought here – either by the Jewish Agency or other programs that are short term – where they come, and receive a lot of Zionist experiences, learn a little Hebrew, and then the moment the program is over they make aliyah… and find themselves alone here,” Pardes Friedburg said.

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For Oleg, 23, a recent immigrant from Kharkiv, the war’s impact is deeply personal. “Since the war began, my whole family in Kharkiv has been living under constant alarm,” he explained. “It’s a feeling of helplessness and despair, knowing that our loved ones are in danger while you are far away, trying to build a new life but also under the reality of war.”

Amid such uncertainty, Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli emerges as a crucial support system, offering a “community envelope” to immigrants who find themselves isolated in a new country. This organization provides essential social connections, support, meaningful, immersive Shabbatot and holiday celebrations, opportunities to explore Israel, and cultural enrichment during these trying times.

 120 Russian-speaking immigrants, including recent arrivals and lone soldiers, celebrate Independence Day with Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli in Neveh Daniel. (credit: Courtesy)
120 Russian-speaking immigrants, including recent arrivals and lone soldiers, celebrate Independence Day with Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli in Neveh Daniel. (credit: Courtesy)

“There are moments when I miss my family, and there are moments where I feel so proud to be part of this society and that all Jews in Israel are family,” reflected Tanya, a new immigrant from Moscow. “Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli is an embracing family framework that gives me a lot of strength and also helps me explore Israel and learn about Jewish culture. I can get help with any topic, in my language, from peers who have been through the same challenges.”

Jonathan Leader, a businessman from New York, is one of the key supporters of Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli. At a recent Independence Day party in Neveh Daniel, he shared his experiences and observations about the organization’s impact. “How did I get involved with SSY? It started with introductions to people in Israel through Giving Group Community,” he said.

He acknowledged the hurdles faced by olim, particularly during wartime. “Coming to a new country is challenging enough. Some have already left and gone back to Russia. Finding a community is where SSY comes in – it gives people a sense of belonging.”

Leader and his wife, who is from the former Soviet Union, found the Independence Day celebration particularly heartwarming. “It was overwhelmingly terrific,” Leader said. “There were lots of people coming together in an informal setting, hanging out, combined with warm spirituality, singers playing the guitar – it was a beautiful and very happy experience.”

When asked if the government should be more involved with FSU olim, Leader was noncommittal but stressed the importance of community support. “Networking is crucial. It’s all about who you know. Linda’s organization brings people together, and being involved with SSY can make a significant difference.”

Pardes Friedburg’s leadership, characterized by her energy and spiritual communication, is a cornerstone of SSY’s success. Leader praised her dedication, noting, “Linda is amazingly energetic, very spiritual without being overbearing. She communicates a sense of joy in Torah and proud Jewish connection, but understands that many new immigrants don’t have a strong Jewish background. Working with Linda is very rewarding; she is genuine and the whole package.”

As the war rages on, the efforts of Shishi Shabbat Yisraeli demonstrate the power of community in helping new immigrants find their place and purpose in Israel.■